Whose Breasts are these anyways?

During breastfeeding, sex is no fun for me. It's like my hormones are used up for producing milk. I told my husband and for a while he backed off. Then I realized that our marriage was lacking by avoiding sex. I told him that we could start having sex again but it had to be when I felt like it.

To tell the honest truth, I still rarely really truly feel like it. I try to be honest with myself, though, about how the overall sensation of all of our interactions really does benefit from having sex at least a couple times a month. But I like being in charge of when we do it because then I'm not always rejecting my husband's advances. And he's so cute when I tell him (even if it's with a big sigh) that I'm ready. It's his lucky night, he says! And he's gentle with me, and I can tell he really cares, and I think he can tell that I care, too.