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Hints About Husbands

This section of our website is dedicated to helping you have a happy relationship with the man you share your life with, ultimately helping you both have a happier life together. These hints are often on the subject of sex, and sometimes they're about other things. We treat each subject with tact while being straightforward, using vocabulary that you might use with discretion around children. Not that you'll be reading these hints to your children! That's just our way of issuing a parental advisory! But please do read these hints with your husband. And then talk amongst yourselves about how to apply them to your marriage.

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My Body Is Not My Own

2/2/2022

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When my first baby was born and he was figuring out how to breastfeed, I didn't recognize my body anymore. My breasts were swollen and painful, my womb had not yet retracted and I still looked pregnant -- even though the bloody evidence that I had given birth was soaking the thickest pads I had ever seen.

I began to resent that, between my husband and me, I had to be the person to experience all of these uncomfortable bodily conditions. My sweet husband did his best to take care of my needs, and that was helpful. And eventually the baby learned how to suck without making my nipples bleed. My postpartum bleeding subsided. Time really was healing my wounds, and I started to actually enjoy the moments that I sat and nursed my little guy.

I loved watching him develop the cutest fat cheeks and thighs! One day it dawned on me that it was my milk -- my gift to him -- that grew that second chin for him! There were times he would smile at me, sometimes with the nipple still in his mouth, and I realized I was also contributing to his mental and emotional growth. I would get hugely satisfying swirls of oxytocin that helped me understand that no, my body was no longer my own, but it was inseparably connected, on a cellular and soul level, with this child. And rather than resent my husband, I almost pitied him!

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