Avoiding Porn is the right thing to do

I couldn't understand how my neighbor talked so openly about her husband accessing porn. She didn't seem too worried about it, but didn't seem thrilled about it either. It was almost like she had agreed to his little "hobby." Unfortunately, their marriage deteriorated in the five or so years that I knew them. I always had to wonder how much the "accepted usage" gnawed away at various aspects of their reltaionship, even though she acted rather indifferent about it. At one point, her daughter (only five years old or so) made suggestive comments that made my friend wonder if her husband was exposing this little girl (not his own child) or worse, molesting her. It was this "straw" on the camel's back that made my friend leave her marriage. She said something else, as I was helping her move, that stuck out to me: "Maybe my next love-interest will be interested in *my* love."