Momivate!
  • Home
  • About Us
  • BLOG
  • DONATE
  • Services
  • S.M.I.L.E. Awards 2023

Parenting: A Sacred Influence

2/18/2023

0 Comments

 
By Phyllis Moyes
I recently saw a video that deeply touched my heart. Although it is a story about an incredibly in-tune school teacher, and his ability to see past a child's active temperament, I couldn't help but think about the power of the message as it applies to motherhood. Take a look:

Be a Mr. Jensen

Don't you love that? It is easy to focus on the weaknesses and imperfections in our children, casting labels and stereotypes on them. But our words are potent influences whether we like it or not.

That video reminded me of a book I read years ago called the Secret Life of Water, written by Masaru Emoto, an internationally recognized Japanese researcher, lecturer, and writer. In the book, Emoto experiments with frozen water droplets. Once they reach -25 degrees centigrade, he allows them to begin thawing, and while they are melting, he speaks to them. When the droplet temperature reaches 5 degrees below zero, he looks at the crystals under a microscope, magnified 200x's. 

Look at these results. Remember, all of these ice crystals come from the same water source, are thawed identically, and are photographed congruently.
​

Like and Hate

Picture

Happiness and unhappiness

Picture

Thank you. You idiot. Thank you. You idiot.

Picture
Isn't it incredible that you can see the crystal trying to be both labels (thank you and you idiot) in that last picture? Did you know that water makes up about 70% of the human body, and our language makes us unique from any other species? Can you see how important our choice of words is when interacting with our children? I loved Mr. Jensen's interaction with Clint Pulver, "you're not a problem; I think you're a drummer." Clint Pulver is a successful motivational speaker, actor, and musician, all because someone saw beyond behavior to his heart and gifts.

As mothers, we can have irreplaceable positive influence on our children's lives; let's be Mr. Jensens'!


You can learn more about Clint Pulver here
https://clintpulver.com/ 
Here is a link to The Secret Life of Water

0 Comments



Leave a Reply.

    AuthorS

    Our Team of CouncilMoms take turns submitting blog posts in each area of the RAISE UP acronym. Guest authors are encouraged to submit their blog posts as well (CONTACT US for more info! Thank you!)

    Join our Momunity!

    Provide your email address or texting number and we'll alert you to new posts!

    Categories

    All
    Adoption
    Ambiance
    April Fools
    Atmosphere
    Autism
    Bad Mom Day
    Bad-Mom-Day
    Birth Parents
    Bonding
    Breastmilk
    Budget
    Butterflies
    Calm
    Cancer
    Carbs
    Challenges
    Change
    Children
    Chores
    Cleaning
    Cleanliness
    Clutter
    Connection
    Conscious Effort
    Consequences
    Consistency
    Contribute
    Control
    Deaf
    Debt
    Depression
    Diabetes
    Discipline
    Discovery Family Adventures
    Drugs
    Eating
    Education
    Encouragement
    Energy
    Example
    Exercise
    Family
    Family Strengthening Month
    Feel
    Finances
    Food
    Fortitude
    Fostering
    Fun!
    Games
    Give
    Goals
    God
    Grace
    Green Ribbon Week
    Grief
    Group Effort
    Growth
    Habits
    Happiness
    Health
    Hearing
    Help
    Holidays
    Homemaking
    Home Management
    Homework
    Hugs
    Husband
    IEP
    Illness
    Imperfection
    Income & Outgo
    Individual Personality
    Infertility
    Influence
    Keto
    Kitchen
    Laundry
    LGBTQ+
    Listening
    Long Term Perspective
    Long-term Perspective
    Love
    Lullabies
    Mealtime
    Meaningful Moments
    Meditation
    Meeting Needs
    Menopause
    Military
    Mindfulness
    MomUnity
    Money
    Mothering
    Motivation
    Music
    My Discovery Destination
    Newborns
    Nurture
    Nutrition
    Optimism
    Organizing
    Other Mothers
    Outside
    Parenting
    Patience
    Peace
    Perimenopause
    Perspective
    Plan
    Pledge
    Positivity
    Potential
    Praise
    Pregnancy
    Prepare
    Preparedness
    Prevent Child Abuse
    Prioritize
    Procrastination
    Promoting Family Values
    Protein
    Reading
    Realistic Expectations
    Reality
    Reasonable Expectations
    Recipe
    Relationships
    Relationship With God
    Resilience
    Rest
    Reward
    Routines
    Sacrifice
    Safety
    Savings
    Schedules
    Screens
    Screen Time
    Security
    See
    Self Care
    Self Discipline
    Self-discipline
    Sense Of Self
    Service
    Sight
    Simplify
    Single Motherhood
    Sleep
    Smell
    Social Media
    Spirituality
    Stepmother
    Sugar
    Summer
    Survival Mode
    Systems
    Taste
    Taxes
    Technology
    Teens
    Temporary
    Thanksgiving
    Thyroid
    Tie
    Time
    Timer
    Touch
    Traditions
    Unique
    Unique Circumstances
    Unplug
    Wisdom
    Words
    Work
    Yelling

Momivate is a BRAND NEW, official 501(c)3 Non-profit organization! Your donations of time or money are greatly appreciated!
Click HERE to donate funds!
Click HERE to donate time!
Thank you!

COMPANIES: Become a MISSION SUPPORTER

ABOUT US 

CONTACT US

​
RESOURCES

​
GLOSSARY


SUBMIT A CONCERN
NOTE: We are only legally able to offer our services in the United States. If you live outside of the U.S. and would like to start a branch in your own country, please contact us.

Click here to read our Website Terms of Use

Please see our Disclaimer.

Please see our Commitment to Privacy here.
Picture

All content on this website is intellectual property of Momivate. All rights reserved.
Photo used under Creative Commons from quinn.anya
  • Home
  • About Us
  • BLOG
  • DONATE
  • Services
  • S.M.I.L.E. Awards 2023